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Chris Mercogliano’s Review of “Can This Be School”

Review of Deb O’Rourke’s Can This Be School? Fifty Years of Democracy at ALPHA

by Chris Mercogliano

Only the quiet children who had spent the morning playing passively were rewarded with gold stars, a five-year-old Deb O’Rourke astutely observed at the end of her very first day of kindergarten. And she wasn’t one of them. Thus began the system’s unwitting creation of a future educational troublemaker and the author of this brilliant new book on democratic schools.

Can This Be School? Fifty Years of Democracy at ALPHA is part memoir, part thoroughly researched polemic, and part history of the democratic school movement. Then, perhaps most importantly, it enters into the permanent record the dramatic story of what is arguably the planet’s oldest, publicly funded democratic school for elementary-age children.

O’Rourke is the best one to share it because she arrived, as the parent of a sensitive young child just like she had once been, early enough in ALPHA’s history to be able to catalog all the ins and outs of convincing the Toronto District School Board to sign off on a radically different kind of public school. It’s a compelling account of how possible it is for a committed group of parents to help create something better for their children so that they won’t have to endure the same educational misery.

Here O’Rourke glosses over nothing. She describes in painstaking detail the messy infighting that soon broke out between parents, staff, and the school board once ALPHA opened its doors and everyone had gotten to see what it looks like when you all of a sudden unleash 100 energetic children on the third floor of an old, urban YMCA for seven hours at a clip. While the notion of educational freedom is lovely and seductive in theory, in practice it’s another matter entirely.

Which was precisely the problem: No one—students, teachers, parents, administrators—had had any practice whatsoever doing a kind of school that allows children to move about as they please and choose what and when they want to learn, gives them a loud voice in the proceedings, and eschews formal curricula, grades, and standardized tests. The noise, as one might imagine, was incessant; and before long there was conflict everywhere you turned. Rambunctious kids locked horns. Anxious, faction-forming parents feared their children would fall behind academically and pleaded for more structure. Overwhelmed teachers discovered they neither agreed with nor liked each other, and irate school board members demanded to know what the hell was going on—all without the preestablished means for resolving any of it.

In a word, writes O’Rourke, it was “chaos.” In its purest form.

But no one got hurt, and ALPHA survived its shakedown cruise. Parents willing to gamble on the school’s experimental approach replaced those who weren’t. They found staff who were more comfortable with such a child-led, improvisational way of teaching and learning—and with each other. And the school board failed to form a majority to defund it. In its second year and beyond, the school relaxed into a vibrant learning community like none other in the city.

It’s not an uncommon story of that period—the late 1960s and early ‘70s—when thousands of educational alternatives sprouted like dandelions and experienced similar birth pangs. What makes ALPHA’s story extraordinarily unique is the way succeeding generations of ALPHA’s supporters have continued to fight, not only to keep the school alive, but also true to its founding principles—in an official climate that stopped being friendly toward it a long time ago. It’s a stubborn victory for democracy in every sense of the word.

O’Rourke, who joined the staff a decade after her role as an ALPHA parent had come to an end and retired in 2015, is the one to tell the second chapter, too, because she was there to witness it. It doesn’t hurt that she’s such a good storyteller—maybe it’s the Irish in her. She moves seamlessly between reports of the countless battles to defend ALPHA against the displeasure of increasingly conservative school authorities and a deft, insider’s description of what sets it apart from conventional schools and makes it so worth saving. Along the way, she seasons the narrative with nuggets of wisdom from visionary educators like AS Neill, Ivan Illich, George Dennison, John Taylor Gatto, and Jonathan Kozol, along with her own insights that stem from someone who deeply understands children. It’s a hard book to put down.

Can This Be School? Fifty Years of Democracy at ALPHA is a welcome addition to the alternative education literature, with Deb O’Rourke adding a fresh voice to the movement’s ongoing campaign to smuggle its ideas and approaches into the mainstream. Her book is a must-read for anyone interested in starting an alternative, or who simply wants a clearer picture of the inner workings and importance of genuinely democratic schools for young children. In addition, I highly recommend it to lovers of history interested in learning more about such a fascinating and provocative era. Having come of age at the exact same time, I savored every morsel!

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One Parent’s Journey

This is my opportunity to thank you. I am one of 15,000 subscribers, reading you every week with joy. I am so grateful for your work and for the joy you give me sharing it.

I wanted to share my parenting and educational story of the past 5 years. I am a mother of four daughters. The middle ones are twins. I got interested in alternative education when my twin daughters began daycare. I think the interest came with the realization that the usual educational path would not suit them. Through the years of pre-school, we did what we thought all parents do: we followed their lead in finding suitable frameworks for them. When they screamed in their car seats, we got a bike to ride on. When they refused to stay at school for lunch, we shortened their day. With this approach, which – we later learned – is called “accommodations”, they got to school-age without us suspecting that public school would pose special challenges.

Kindergarten was a treasure of knowledge opening to them. They loved it. However, in first grade the school requirements started raising their opposition.From 2nd grade until now, their school story included school-refusal, being restrained, a series of neuro-psychological diagnoses leading to two unsuitable school placements, and finally, being thrown out of school. Now they are joyfully and freely home-schooled, with the support of a farm home-school program, and a self-directed school that permits partial enrollment, and wonderful online classes. They are championing their fields of interest: nature and animals, art, and Rubik’s cubes. We have learned that a self-directed education is not a choice for them, but a necessity.

 I now ask myself how come I struggled so much to leave them in the traditional school system. The answer is that given their special challenges, I worried that we would not be able to offer enough support through home-schooling, and that the self-directed educational establishment and communities would not accept our girls.

 I have learned the hard way that once in a suitable framework, and with offering suitable support, a lot of the challenges disappear, and my girls are free to leash out their craving to learn. 

I believe many families go through the educational roller-coaster we have been through. For us, the reason was mostly that we did not have access to people who had the knowledge concerning, specifically, students who are titled “special-ed”. We came full-circle, back to self-directed education as the best (and maybe only) option for our girls, through a specific Autism profile I came upon, and an online community of parents facing similar struggles, who told of their experiences and solutions.

My strongest conclusion is that, once in a suitable environment, children no longer have a “diagnosis”, but rather a chosen way of fulfilling their craving for learning and passions. 

My own passion at the moment is to make this knowledge more readily available to parents in similar situations. I wish there were someone, be it a teacher, therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or friend, who could point us in this direction.Given that it is exactly children like my own, who desperately and crucially need a change in the education system, or the choice to take another path, it is my hope that we can make this knowledge more available for these people.I would love to hear your opinion about this. Warmly and with admiration, Shevi Sperber

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The Mindshift Institute Presents COSMOS AND CONSCIOUSNESS 2022.

Saturday, November 12, 2022
9 am – 5 pm

More info here.

“The Mindshift Institute has produced 10 Cosmos and Consciousness conferences. We also held two reunions. We decided to have another conference because we feel that there have been major advances that have validated much of what we were communicating at our gatherings.

Our participatory conferences focused on new knowledge that could help us address major unanswered questions such as What is Life? What is Love? What is Interconnectedness? Does Consciousness Create Reality? What is Our Place in the Universe? Frontier scientists and leading-edge researchers shared what they were learning with those in attendance.
But our Mindshift audiences were not simply passive recipients. They were active participants who shared their ideas and perceptions as well. One woman who had come to many of our conferences said she could describe the Cosmos and Consciousness gatherings in one word: Luminous.”